Tuesday, 30 July 2013

Combat Stress with Mindfulness


 
Understanding the theory behind breaking the stress response is great, but it doesn’t mean anything if you can’t put it into practise. Breaking the cycle of your thoughts can help you to feel less stressed and less anxious. We do have the power to get ourselves out of the cycle at any moment, without having to resort to the same old tools which are often unhealthy or counterproductive. The challenge is - it’s much easier said than done.

There has been some amazing work on the brain changes that come along with mindfulness training, these studies suggest that the most effective way to dissociate from our anxious thoughts is to focus in on our moment-to-moment experience. Mindfulness, teaches us simply to observe our thoughts and sensations in a nonjudgmental way – but this can be difficult at first, and a little abstract.

One of my favourite Buddhist quotes is “Wash every pot like it’s a new born baby” It really encapsulates the idea that even the most ordinary, everyday task can be turned into an experience.  I used to be the queen of multitasking – almost challenging myself to do as many things as I could.  I found taking care of my babies really challenged this – if you have a new born demanding to be fed then everything else takes a backseat!  Seems we are back to baby references again! 

Now as my yoga practice deepens and I try to become more present in my yoga – so it spills out into everyday life.  When I am doing what some people would think of as boring, menial tasks like hanging out the washing, I take my time, I breathe in the air, noting the scents on the breeze, the feel of the air against my skin.  It all seems so simple but when you put it into practice – just living and experiencing each moment of your life as it arises, then it does bring a sense of stillness and calmness and will balance out those other moments of chaos which will still arise in your life. 
 

 

Monday, 15 July 2013

The thrill of a good book!

I am pleased to say that now my children are a little older I now have a bit more time and inclination to read.  I feel that the world of books has opened up to me again after being closed for a while as I cared for my young family.  I always knew I would come back to this much loved pastime and during the time when my kids were very young, I was studying, so was reading text books - but that is not like proper reading is it?  For the pure pleasure of it...... 

My wish list on Amazon is so long now, I am not sure I have enough years left in me to read each book, but the interesting thing is the types of books that are on there.  I am not sure if it is my age, whether it is becoming a Mum or whether it is my deepening yoga practice.  Whereas at one time I would be found reading crime novels and thrillers, now my book collection and wish list has books on psychology, religion, history, all forms of spiritualism, reincarnation and lots of other stuff.  I think there might even be a book on Quantum Physics in there.  So I have been considering buying a Kindle (or some other electronic book reader) to try to save a bit of money in the long run, but I am wondering if the reading experience will be the same, not having a real book to hold.  The thrill of the discovery of an interesting and intriguing looking book in a charity shop or a new book being delivered by the postman, finding that the person who had it before me has left some interesting bookmark or cryptic note inside (I always buy second hand).  I will just make a few clicks and there the book will be - the whole experience may well leave me feeling cheated.  Or am I just old fashioned and nostalgic.  I remember trying to prop up a Nancy Drew book so I could read it whilst eating a packet of fruit pastilles at the age of about 10, no such problem with a Kindle!!

Well for now I'm going to wait for a little while before I invest in a Kindle, I am going to continue to indulge myself in real books, well maybe until there is no room left on the book shelf.......

Friday, 5 July 2013

Yoga Highlight of the Week!

Some would imagine that for a yoga teacher, a highlight of their classes would be getting someone into headstand for the first time, or achieving an excellent break-through in trikonasana. But for me this week, someone falling asleep in my class was my highlight.

This particular lady is a spritely octogenarian, having lived a very full life so far as a teacher and mother. She has been attending my class for about a year and does her best each week.  But she struggles as she is rather deaf and the room we use for yoga has terrible acoustics and my voice tends to echo around and become distorted.  This causes her a bit of stress as she feels she maybe missing some crucial instruction.  I have tried my best to reassure her and she stays in good humour throughout, but I still sense her frustration.  During her relaxation her head is bobbing up and she is looking at me constantly as she thinks she has missed some important part of the relaxation instruction.

However, this week, I looked over as she lay in savasana - her body completely relaxed, sweet smile on her face, but no tension, no twitching, no bobbing head.  She had managed to relax enough to fall asleep.  Yes I know one should avoid falling asleep in relaxation/yoga nidra/meditation but for my seniors I make all the allowances they need and if they feel relaxed enough to fall asleep then I feel my job is done!

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